what would you choose

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must choose one option no changing in between them.
please give you reason why

if you could erase someone from your past so that you didn't remember them would you do it?
if you had the option not to feel emotions would you?
which is better to have loved and lost, or to have never loved at all?

oh and by the way did any of you see that snipe-

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  • 5

    1. my dad, becuse ever since I was two I have been trying to get my mom to leave him. He left when I was 14, I had to try to take care of my brothers for a year for the woman to pull herself together. When he found out I was athiest I was afraid for my life becuse of the look in his eyes, I haven't gone to sleep for more then an hour at at a time after that. Now all he does is compare me to his perfect wife and perfect daghter, I'm apparently not a good human being according to him. He doesn't like that I won't where pink or arropostal, or that I like to do 'guy' things. He thinks assasins creed is for children and will not let me play it. He says manga is for children and won't let me read it. He says drawings for people with talent and won't let me draw. He says reading is for people who don't have a life. He says I'm antisocial becuse I don't speak to an adult without permition to speak. And he says the militarys for men, well fuck him I'm going to be a marine.

    2 If I could I would not feel emotions. I hate crying every time I think about my grandma who did when I was five. Or crying when my dad spends his day telling me how much I suck(after he's gone of corse)

    3 which is better to have loved and lost, or to have never loved at all? Never to have loved at all, that way I wouln't be sad when I think about grandma or think about the pets I had to give up when I whent into a homeless program. The program sucks, I hate being talked to like I'm stupid.

    • ember
    • January 8, 2011, 10:40 pm
    I feel so sad :( I'm sorry
    - 24paperwings January 8, 2011, 11:08 pm
    Don't be sad:D It's not something anybody can control, be happy that your one of the meny people who can make me smile and forget my problems. you also helped me vent, I don't get the chance to offten.
    - ember January 8, 2011, 11:13 pm
    wow that sounds crap. sorry there :/
    - Bekenel January 9, 2011, 12:26 am
    everything you have gone through has made you who you are today. if you remove even one portion of that, you wouldn't be the same. live life as if tomorrow isn't there, because one day it won't be. have no regrets in the decisions you make, mistakes are only mistakes if you refuse to learn from them. as for other people's mistakes, they are just teaching you how not to be to other people. someone is always watching you, how you react, you never know when they are secretly getting their strength to get through their situation from you and yours....
    - DeviousCow January 9, 2011, 12:33 am
    D= so your saying I have a stalker! *locks all windows and doors, grabs brother goes into secret tunnel, takes secret underground train to secret underground bunker in sibiria, eats bacon*
    - ember January 9, 2011, 12:38 am
    lol... youse a funny peoples... side note, ive gone through some things, at 21, that i found out some older guys in my unit were looking to me for guidance and at how i reacted when it happened, helped them through a tough time for my whole platoon... didn't find out until about 4-5 months later when tehy came up to me, there was 3 or 4 of them, and told me that they seen how i handled it and just tried to do the same and not let me and the rest of the guys down... so you never know who might need to draw strength from you... and always keep your sense of humor, bcz in the end, your smile and laugh is one of the few things they cant take from you...
    - DeviousCow January 9, 2011, 12:54 am
    and id like some bacon too... om nom nom...
    - DeviousCow January 9, 2011, 12:54 am
    well... they could rip out my vocal cords and sew my mouth. Just saying:D
    - ember January 9, 2011, 1:02 am
    then you'd still be smiling on the inside as one last act of rebellion yes? i would... and id try to take at least a few of them down with me, my smile is too good to rob the ladies of the world of it without a decent fight ;)
    - DeviousCow January 9, 2011, 1:05 am
    my dad sort of treats me the same way. beat the shit out of him do something dont let him walk all over you.
    - castlewarsisawsome January 9, 2011, 5:15 am
    sibiria is a big place to find yoo, but im sure a nuke will flush yoo out >:D
    - BlurrySours January 9, 2011, 6:23 am
    No, that's not the way to solve your problems
    - tbart2010 January 9, 2011, 6:45 pm
    trust me you dont want people to walk over you. after a while ] it's like saying here i won't fight you can ass rape me
    - castlewarsisawsome January 9, 2011, 7:25 pm
  • 2

    1 no i would erase anyone ive known because meeting those people shaped who i am and i like the way i turned out
    2. i would choose to feel shit happens people get hurt but theres alot of fun shit to enjoy along the way
    3. better to have loved and lost for the same reason as number 2

    • Jabori
    • January 9, 2011, 6:16 pm
  • 1

    i believe that all situations that happened/happens/will happen in our lives (in this case situations are ppl)were inevitable,so if i would like to change something it will be my attitude towards these ppl so i can get out with less damage, this means if i want to change something, remove someone it will be me, because it is the only remaining variable (that is if we assume that we as human beings are 100% free will of course), or what?

  • 1

    1. my ex gf cause i was really dumb to actuly date her
    2. no it would want my emotions because if i didn't have them i would be life less
    3. better to have love and lost because for a short time you were in love. and there will always be someelse

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