Who is the most emotional? Girls or guys?
Well, its true, us guys really are. But why? Well because its the girls.
Is it just me, or are they just so fucking judgmental nowadays? They all expect a rich spoiled buff man. Well, thats not reality. If you want a kind, loving man, who will do anything for you, the odds are, theyre not the super cool kids you see at school. At my school, all the "cool" kids are stuck up assholes, and the relationships look like the two just met, even if theyve been going out for 2 years. Well, why would i be saying this? Well im a high school sophomore, and i still have no gf. Why? Well im not that buff dude that girls like. Im kinda skinny, thatsonly because i have a high/fast metabolism, and working out only makes me skinnier. Ive got a 6 pack, but my arms arent getting bigger... im just getting stronger and more tone. I worked out hard over summer, and in 2 months, all that happened is i lost almost 15 pounds! i have asked out 3-4 really nice girls, but the rejections were so cold, they make you feel useless. Instead of a normal "no" they say, "Oh well, i dont like you, and i dont see you as a boyfriend, oh, and your stupid". Well girls, edward fucking cullen will not marry you. Well, i asked a girl for her number, shes nice, christian, very pretty, and weve been friends for 2 years... now, she wont even look at me... i feel like shit today too :/
So, whos the most emotional? Guys
But my case rests at the girls are worse, because theyre mean, nasty, and just cold (not all of em, but hey, im a high school student, all teen girls are like that)
Is it just me, or are they just so fucking judgmental nowadays? They all expect a rich spoiled buff man. Well, thats not reality. If you want a kind, loving man, who will do anything for you, the odds are, theyre not the super cool kids you see at school. At my school, all the "cool" kids are stuck up assholes, and the relationships look like the two just met, even if theyve been going out for 2 years. Well, why would i be saying this? Well im a high school sophomore, and i still have no gf. Why? Well im not that buff dude that girls like. Im kinda skinny, thatsonly because i have a high/fast metabolism, and working out only makes me skinnier. Ive got a 6 pack, but my arms arent getting bigger... im just getting stronger and more tone. I worked out hard over summer, and in 2 months, all that happened is i lost almost 15 pounds! i have asked out 3-4 really nice girls, but the rejections were so cold, they make you feel useless. Instead of a normal "no" they say, "Oh well, i dont like you, and i dont see you as a boyfriend, oh, and your stupid". Well girls, edward fucking cullen will not marry you. Well, i asked a girl for her number, shes nice, christian, very pretty, and weve been friends for 2 years... now, she wont even look at me... i feel like shit today too :/
So, whos the most emotional? Guys
But my case rests at the girls are worse, because theyre mean, nasty, and just cold (not all of em, but hey, im a high school student, all teen girls are like that)
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Don't worry, not all girls are that stuck up. If they were, I wouldn't have a girlfriend lol. You'll find someone, just give it time, and be yourself. Better to wait a while to find someone who really likes you for who you are than to find someone quick who will leave when they realize what you're really like.
Yea,now might be bad, but in the future, who knows... thanks for the enlightening words +1
cheer up dude! i broke my knee and 2 days lator i got a gf.... idk how but i think it had to do with timing, and i think thats wat your missing. when you focus so hard on getting a gf it duznt go well. its better to just not care. plus i think they like that ;D
same here! i broke my ankle and got a gf like a week later. we're still together and that was almost a year and 5 months ago :D
The rule here: Break something. It'll get you a girlfriend.
lol sorry for my 1st response, but I just had to do it(lol)
anyways, wow thats pretty fucked up how they could reject u like that, Im sexist so I treat girls with more care than I would treat a guy, but I dont treat them like how u would carry a new born, if they dont have respect for me or at least them selfs they could go fuck them selfs cus I aint gonna fuck them.
& if u get rejected let me tell u it is WAY better than having a gf out of pity.
dont try to buff up just to impress girls & want them to go out with u, u dont want a shallow girl like that, trust me.
& if ur worried about how u look, there r some "ugly as fuck" guys out there that still find the right person for them & there not rich.
so dont shit ur self if u get rejected, like the old saying goes
"u cant score, if u dont shoot"
anyways, wow thats pretty fucked up how they could reject u like that, Im sexist so I treat girls with more care than I would treat a guy, but I dont treat them like how u would carry a new born, if they dont have respect for me or at least them selfs they could go fuck them selfs cus I aint gonna fuck them.
& if u get rejected let me tell u it is WAY better than having a gf out of pity.
dont try to buff up just to impress girls & want them to go out with u, u dont want a shallow girl like that, trust me.
& if ur worried about how u look, there r some "ugly as fuck" guys out there that still find the right person for them & there not rich.
so dont shit ur self if u get rejected, like the old saying goes
"u cant score, if u dont shoot"
Im a girl, and I was good looking in high school. I agree with all you guys, for one thing, it has to be something els, not your size. Every girl has different taste, and high school is full of imature idiots. Once they mature, they have different outlooks on what they really want. They didnt mean what they said to you, they're probably just going along with their stupid friends, because thats what girls do in high school, go with the crowd and they FEED off of putting ppl down. I was picked on so much, all the popular girls hated me for no reason. I hated high school. But you will find the right girl who is crazy about you, and you'll be crazy about her, trust me. Cheer up :)
Dude, who needs women? Personally, I think they get in the way. This is a totally objective standpoint, and I'm not being sexist here. It's just the whole BF/GF craze pisses me off. Find yourself some close friends that won't require you to date every weekend and spend all your time with them. Do what you want to do, and don't lock yourself up to making someone else happy.
Im not ranting, idk if i get downrated, i just need to fume, still feeling like shit from todays rejection
Public or private? Aren't they the same thing lol? :S
Oh maybe it's just in the UK then? because here, public & private are the same thing, the alternative is a state school.
tbh not all teen girls are like tht im now a junior in hs (school started yesterday) nd ive been with my gf for 1year nd 3 months nd every1 says are yall married yet thts jus how much affection we show nd dont always lookn for the prettiest girl look for hte more quiet types nd the smart girls cause usually they r cute nd they have a lil naughty side if u go wat i mean lolz
Rejection is some of the hardest shit to deal with but we guys are expected to make the first step, so that sux. I understand completely how u feel. Before asking tho just dont expect too much and know that ur fine with or without a girl so rejection doesnt change anything, its just a temporary let down is all. Remember" Que Serah, serah. Whatever will be will be." srry if thats misspelled.
Girls do not want a buff guy. You are sorely mistaken. There is something else about you that they do not like, or you are going after only those few girls who are into guys with big muscles and small cocks (since most guys who have fully developed muscles in high school are taking steroids).
Lower your standards, get laid, go to college, meet women with more substance.
Lower your standards, get laid, go to college, meet women with more substance.
At 15, all girls want are "buff kids" and shit, thats high shcool man
I was in high school, and that is not what the girls were into. The buff guys actually dated more of the trashy girls, while the average size guys who were just good looking got the hotties.
It gets better as you get older, and girls become less shallow. Also, many of those decent looking girls will become very hot between the ages of 15-18 and they won't know it.
It gets better as you get older, and girls become less shallow. Also, many of those decent looking girls will become very hot between the ages of 15-18 and they won't know it.
Hopefully you will be consoled by the fact that girls can be soulless bitches at times and their rejection shouldn't mean that much seeing as they are like that. In fact, that just shows that you're probably better off without those particular ones. Really, having a gf at this stage in life isn't all that important. This is time better spent with friends. I'm a senior and a girl and I've had one bf (btw, he was definitely more emotional than me, so you were right about that lol) and I have the most fun when Im with friends and I dont have to worry about a clingy boy and holding hands and worrying if I've been paying enough attention to him. Hopefully one day I'll find someone who changes my mind but for now, dont stress about how you look or whether or not girls want to date you and just have fun :)
I know what you feel like.
Thats hard but you have got to deal with it...
The problem is that when you find a special someone you just want to get her and you focus so much on your time on thinkin about her. But then you get rejected.
I know it sounds stupid but you will find someone. Or you work till you get her even if she says no in the beginning
Thats hard but you have got to deal with it...
The problem is that when you find a special someone you just want to get her and you focus so much on your time on thinkin about her. But then you get rejected.
I know it sounds stupid but you will find someone. Or you work till you get her even if she says no in the beginning
well i live in england, and im 15 going into my last year at secondary school. I agree with most of the responses but i think the girls over here are pretty much the same as the ones in america, in my opinion girls only go for the hard lads wid their spikey hair nd shit, pricks basically. ive pretty much not had a Gf for atleast a good year or so and i only rely on my mates more i suppose ive gave up for now atleast til when the girls start getting more mature eh!.. and they say girls mature before boys....bullshit, but good post so +2
just remember high school is a girls fantasy love life they will go for the jocks over the nerds because they're shallow as fuck but after high school reality hits them like a brick and then they notice that the guys that they wouldn't even give the time of day to are the ones that are successful and thus they go those guys. i have one of the hottest chicks from my graduating class because i got my shit together early. just keep your nose in the books and learn what you need to learn to make it and you'll do fine.
well this is the generation of wool and its just a trend that is broken after high school and yes not all girls go for the jocks but a lot of them do which is where the stereotype comes from. and when did you graduate High School?
well im sure that's true but in the 2000 era girls just seem to be more about image than the personality
at the end of the day my friend we are all shallow in some way. another way of saying shallow is having standards. the difference between the two is a semantic debate. does it make you a bad person that you don't want to date a fat chick? an ugly chick? a stupid chick? a stuck up chick? that is a truly open ended question. a better question is will you date just anyone or do you have standards? i know there are certain things about a chick that if i see i won't ask her out. that may make me shallow in some eyes but i have standards and won't date just anyone. besides if she don't dig you, you probably only dig her for her hatchet wound. and thats ok too, just don't mistake lust for love.
Hey c'mon don't sell ur self short im sure ur a much better person than them stuck up chicks I mean its only high school u have ur hole life ahead of u chicks in high school don't matter anyway its after HS that matters think about it what can they do for u anyway NOTHING but give u a head ache and act like lil girls, u should never change ur physical appearance for anybody ur are perfect just as u are and if the chicks are only interested in superficial things or boy/men then there not right for you anyways just be a good and kind hearted person and u will find that person good things come to those who wait...
Dude, I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and he's not 'buff', he just shows that he cares, if I'm happy, he's there and if I'm sad he's there. That's what I want and after going out with some real twats, I realised that's what I wanted someone who actually gave a damn how I felt, and looking back on exes, I wonder why I went out with them. I also give the same back though, if he's upset, I'm there for him, don't just think that we only go out with guys because they protect us, in fact I hate being like that I like to look out for myself, it's just so that if I do get upset he's there for me and vice versa. These girls sound like idiots man, who want a big buff trophy boyfriend, and they're the ones going to end up leading failed and fake lives. Whereas you'll find a girl who likes you for you and appreciates what you do for her and you'll be happy. But in response to your question, I think we're about the same, it just get's shown in different ways..
hey man, you're young... don't take yourself outta the game just cuz a couple dumb broads can't see potential... theres plenty of other good girls out there, you wanna get someone mature enough to not care about the material things so much, like muscles and cars and money... also, start taking some protein and weight gainers, BSN makes a good line of products...
You know he wont be able to read your comment since he committed suicide like a couple of months ago
dude you freacked me the fuck out +1
Punch one of them tough guys that all of the girls like and kick his aff(another word for a**). Then you have proven yourself worthy...
Man, if only I had the upper arm strength to do this, but u sound like you have it! Go impress the ladies!
Man, if only I had the upper arm strength to do this, but u sound like you have it! Go impress the ladies!
hey man, theres alot of girls like that yes. but yknow, guys can be dicks like that too. honestly (as a girl) i have really low standards ok. like ive been far to nice to so many guys but it never really works. the only guys who habe ever been "nice" to me just want to get in my pants. rejection hurts bad bro, but its not like girls dont get rejected too. i know im not ugly and i dont have a bad personality, but guys just want the real slutty girls it always seems like. whatever, shit happens, life goes on. woohoo. btw, +3 you sound sexy ;)
