So there's this girl I've known for years now and I've developed feelings for her and I really like her. We're best friends and we can chat for HOURS (she goes to a different school but I do see her time to time at some occasions). The thing is, she doesn't like me back which I really don't get! I mean, we used to chat for hours and talk about everything. I professed my feelings for her three times and all three times she said no. However, she kept telling me that I was her best and closest friend and you all know how much that sucks x.x But in all honesty, I am her best friend. Eventually, when I came to college, I couldn't take it anymore. I had to break off all ties. Eventually I ended up blocking her on chat even though I really do like her. The problem is that she might come to my college next year! AGH why does this friend zone thing exist! I don't understand why she doesn't like me x.x I think one of the problems may have been the fact that I dont actually see her that much so it would have been difficult to develop feelings for me but if she does come here, should I start talking to her again. should I unblock her? The risk is that she might just put me in the friend zone again...even though we could hang out everyday. I just don't get it x.x Any advice?
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Posted: 2011-11-13 15:23:02
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from what i have seen anything is possible it just has to be with the right girl, i made a romantic gesture, and it all worked out.
but i do have the ability to talk my way into and out of anything,
but i think that if you have asked 3 times and been shot down just remember these words
god these helped me
What the "friend zone" is, (and don't take this the wrong way) is a polite way to tell someone that you don't find them physically attractive and don't want to hurt their feelings. How do I know this? Because I've used this an excuse before, to avoid hurting a girl's feelings any more than I have to by rejecting her.
Now don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to insult you, or call you ugly. I'm sure you're a decent looking guy. But we don't all like the same things, and some people are much more shallow than others. They can't help it. She might come around eventually for all you know. But don't sever contact or block her, it's a dick thing to do.
Or you can always go with this
exact same here other than the blocking and the college thing