Relationships are........?
Ok guys. What do you think about significant others? Give advice, ask qustions, or even vent.
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Posted: 2009-11-22 20:42:39
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"Be Honest and pick your battles"
Well said! +1
Well said! +1
They don't last for more than 10 years anymore, unless your are in you late 50's
LOL. I'm at my 10 year mark and was born in the 70's. Things are going well but thanks for the warning. I'll check back in when it begins to fall apart. :P
Whaat its not that hard really, just be real about it. She says no, its not like the world is going to end. If she says yes, well obviously you did something right :)
Relationships are a delicate balance of love and hate. If any of you have had siblings you''ll know this. When you are trapped in a house with brothers and/or sisters it is very difficult to get along with them as is getting along with your parents but you still love them. When you are in a relationship you will run into this same situation. You're not going to like everything that person does especially if you are living together. You have to take the good with the bad. Granted, there are many relationships that happen for the wrong reasons but most relationships that fail are due to individual selfishness and a lack of respect for one another. You can have a disagreement or even an argument, you'll even say things you don't mean because you're angry but if you don't respect that person or yourself for that matter all you will do is bicker and argue. Just because you are in a relationship doesn't mean that you are not entitled to personal space and time to be alone and that I think is one of the main reasons relationships fail. Some people grow insecure when you don't want to be with them all the time and can result in a bad situation.
Just a rant!
Just a rant!
fuck um there confusin an the only thing both sides are lookin for is sex admitt it girls you want us just as bad as we want you yall are just more secretive about it
Eh this is from a man's perspective. First I'll start off from the whole flirting perspective. The way women flirt is just....EVIL! They go just beyond the threshold of flirting and normal behavior, so they can reign it back in, just in case the man isn't what she wanted or in case he doesn't give the right response back. Just pure evil!! And not to mention the way you ladies use a thing called "Girl Code". I've dove into research asking many of my chick friends about this, and let me paint a picture for you!
Guy's perspective:
Myself and a buddy come down an escalator, and I spot a group of three chicks: a red head, blonde, and brunette. Of course, your buddy lets you have the first pick, and you go from there. They're all reasonably attractive and let's say I choose the blonde. Buddy is left with the other two. He get's ms. Brunette's # and I don't get anything! We move on.
Girl's Perspective:
Red head happens to notice us both coming down the escalator, and since she spots us first, she of course gets her pick. She chooses me, hence the other two girls aren't allowed to flirt with me, and have to politely decline if I ask them for their #. Meaning I had no chance with the blonde from the start. How fucked up is that?!?
Am I right? Ladies?
Guy's perspective:
Myself and a buddy come down an escalator, and I spot a group of three chicks: a red head, blonde, and brunette. Of course, your buddy lets you have the first pick, and you go from there. They're all reasonably attractive and let's say I choose the blonde. Buddy is left with the other two. He get's ms. Brunette's # and I don't get anything! We move on.
Girl's Perspective:
Red head happens to notice us both coming down the escalator, and since she spots us first, she of course gets her pick. She chooses me, hence the other two girls aren't allowed to flirt with me, and have to politely decline if I ask them for their #. Meaning I had no chance with the blonde from the start. How fucked up is that?!?
Am I right? Ladies?
they are many things about relationships... Sacrifice-its hard no matter how much u like this girl to just walk up to her and hold her hand or do things so that she wants to do. Awesomeness- if u've had a bad day just go up to your girl and give her a hug! At least that is how it is with me.
Its all pretty much a balancing act. You have to be yourself but you need to compromise a little because nobody's perfect, its just a fact of life. Acceptance and honesty are the two biggest things I think.
Ok I need some advice. So I call my gf about 20 minutes ago and she is on the verge of tears. I ask her what's wrong and she won't tell me. I think it had something to do with her parents but she said I was mentioned in all the trouble. So I say that she really needs to talk to me but she refuses. Then as I was typing this comment she calls me and says that she just wanted to tell me that she loved me and that she might be able to talk about it tommrow.
She has always been like this. She bottles everything up inside and doesn't want to talk about things. I want to be there for her and try to help her when I can but how can I if she always excludes me?
She has always been like this. She bottles everything up inside and doesn't want to talk about things. I want to be there for her and try to help her when I can but how can I if she always excludes me?
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