My life (sucks)

Well my life sucks... it really does. I might have an xbox, a tv, and a computer, but that stuff doesn't make up for the shit i deal with all day. My parents are a major part of that.

My mom is a stay at home mom, but she really doesn't clean up the house, or at least help. The kids are stuck with doing all the chores. This is how chores are divided

10 yr old- Nothing
13 yr old- Clean up the few pieces of trash
Me- Do all the dishes (we have a lot, and they are full of rotten food), clean our kitchen (filthiest place in the house), and take care of our dogs.

So i do all of our dishes, usually they have dirty food caked on them, because everyone doesn't know what the fuck RINSE YOUR DISHES AFTER EATING mean.

10 yr old brother-
As you can see my 10 yr old does nothing, that's because he is "too young" or so my parents say. 10 years old is TOO OLD to not be doing anything! I was cleaning my room at 5... so why cant he? My parents left him with the stupidest fucking decision ever for a 10 year old. They gave him the decision if he wanted to go to school, or be home schooled. Why they wanted him to be home schooled is the most pathetic fucking excuse ever. The kids at school were saying bad words. These words were:

V*ag*ina, n*igger, pe*nis

OK 2 of those words are not bad. Nigger is bad, but its part of reality. Vagina and penis are words that are NOT bad, theyre just parts of the human body, tv stations don't even censor those. To top it off, my bro cusses more than anyone I've ever seen!

But the issue is, my mom has been home schooling him for 2 years. 300 fucking dollars in text books, and god knows what else, for what? They dont do shit, all his books are empty, nothing has been read or said. His school now consists of XBOX live and pokemon. Hes 10 years old, cusses like a trucker, a 4th grader drop out, and his daily activities are HALO. He doesn't brush his teeth (i think he lost his toothbrush YEARS ago) and he never cleans up. He sleeps in filth. He's 10 years old, and still sleeps on the living room couch. I dont get how his room is worse than a dumpster and he's never in it. The kid has a very bad future ahead of him, hands down

13 yr old-

No comment, hes the most normal person in our household.

Me-

My parents just piss me off so much. I understand how a kid should show respect to his parents, which i do, but i still have every right to be pissed at them. They treat me like I'm 5, I'm gonna be 16 in a month for gods sake. I am a month from getting a job, a car, and my life taking off. I cant even drink a soda with lunch or dinner because "its got to much sugar, and sugar makes you hyper" ← IF YOU'RE 5!!!! They say i act like a 5 year old, so tell me sharenator, does this sound like a 5 year old to you?:

I am a sophomore at high school-

I am learning French and Japanese
I have a job
I had a job since i was 10
I take college courses after Im done at school
I already have my whole future laid out for me
I am the only one (besides my dad) who brushes my teeth 3 times a day
I have a girl friend
My favorite music is from the 70s-80s
My school counselor says i act better behaved than Harvard students
And so much more

If 5 year old do that, this world has succeeded.

I also get the pep talk because i have no social life... I play CoD MW2 with 15 other kids from my school, I get 10+ facebook friends a day (well known friends). You don't have to be at their house to have a social life.

My mom-

I dont know whether to say i love her, or i hate her. She is a stay at home mom, who doesn't contribute. She wont even walk to my room to talk to me, she yells for my brother to come get me to walk to her room... Her only drink is soda. She never helps clean, yet complains when things are dirty. Yells at me because i never seem to do my chores right, yet wont do them how she wants them. Takes everything personally. I was talking to my brother about his girlfriend, and i guess in the sentence "jake, hows ur girlfriend" i called my mom, a bitch, stupid person, bad mother, fucker, asshole, anything else. She cries 3 times a day becuase her life is just so bad (she has a plasma tv in her room, a laptop, a 3000 dollar camera, an xbox, a wii, and a husband who will buy her anything if she wants it). She yells all day. Also, the thing i hate the most, if she's mad at my dad, she will yell at me for 5 hours straight for being such a failure and a mistake for no reason.

My mother has driven me to the point to NEVER want to get married

So, what is everyone else's life like? And if your life is as bad or worse, i feel sorry for you :/

my life - my life (sucks)

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  • 11

    hey there brother we all have good and bad days. don't let anyone tell you different. i may give you hell but you are a spark plug. i have seen the ambition in your post. your time is coming. i mean this from the bottom of my heart when i say this. i went through rotc in college and then joined the marine corp. the 8 years i spent in the core changed my life for the better. i am not saying this option is for you but i am asking if you have ever considered it?
    may the force be with you.

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    Cheer up Sunshine!

    Well my life... :D
    My parents are divorced and hate each other, I have the whiniest brother and sister in the history of everything, who, if they shout enough get what they want, and both parents who are on happy pills.

    To be honest, your situation does sound bad, but remember you're only 15/16. You got a whole life ahead of you and there's plenty of time to sort stuff out, I'm nearly 18 and when I was your age I felt the same way, like the whole world is against you and I know that the phrase pissed me off to no end when people told me but it's a teenage thing to feel isolated and like your life sucks and trust me it does at times, I know that and I'm sure a lot of other people do, but I'm 2/3 years older than you and in that time since I was your age my life has drastically changed for the better. I have been through college and got myself some qualifications and in that time have gained so much more confidence it's untrue, some awesome friends, I have a boyfriend, and now I'm going to get more qualifications.

    Look at the positives and concentrate on them, that's what I did and I'm sure things will turn around.

    • SuDoku
    • July 21, 2010, 10:59 pm
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    who downrated that that was a harmless joke

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    I'll just leave this here

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    Wow - first I want to say that I am impressed that you posted your thoughts and feelings honestly. That took huge balls. From what I read you seem to have a great head on your shoulders and a great future since you have the ambition and drive to accomplish success in whatever you choose. Dont worry , honestly , we ALL have days where it seems like " WHAT THE FUCK !?!?!?! " - seriously ... you are not alone, but you carry a heavy burden on your shoulders and that is not something that you should have right now. It will keep you from being a "kid" which is something that every person should have a chance to be- Im not saying be completely irresponsible but enjoy yourself now while you still can and make mistakes that wont ruin your life. I think its brutal that it all falls on you but it will continue to shape you and make you into a stronger person. Your possibilities are endless and depending on what you want to do , you can make it anywhere with your mindset. The bottom line is that nothing that you do will make anyone else change and you need to come to terms with that and make your peace. All you can do is be there for your family and do for yourself and family as much as you want/can. It will make an unbreakable bond later in life when your siblings think back to you and what you did for them. Hang in there kitty... it gets better.

    images - my life (sucks)

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    still an asshole thing

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    Yea, i added +1, unfair to downrate that

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  • 3

    You went through college Rotc? I'm going all through highschool with Rotc. I'm in my second year of it. Good job.

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    I've learned alot from it in just my first year, and I have the luck of it being a Marine corps Rotc. Being in Rotc has actualy been one of the best decisions I've ever made.

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    Ok, so I got downrated for uprating something? How does that work?

    • Ertrov
    • July 27, 2010, 5:58 pm
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    people are nubs, +1 to both your comments

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    I’m on 15 different kinds of anti depression pills anxiety pills sleep pills pain pills you name it I’m on it. my step dad started beating me when I was 10.....I’m 18....he still beats the shit out of me.....my mom watches....and laughs. My house is full of people. my sister lives with me along with her 4 demon children and my bum of and uncle lives with me and sleeps on an air mattress in my room....he doesn’t ever shower....I have had my arm,ribs,collar bone,4 fingers, my ankle my wrist, and leg broken by my stepdad....I have been beaten so hard I threw up blood and pissed blood....because of everything that has been done to me I have learned to cope through any means possible this means any drug I can get my hands on and bottles on top of bottles of vodka.....and on top of that my fiance decides to leave me for a nigger.....

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  • 2

    Smartest and wisest thing I've heard you say ever Cash. +1 from me

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  • 2

    thats captain cash to you Sir. retired.

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  • 2

    sry about my last post i had a bad day i hope ur live gets better i really do

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  • 2

    I'm glad you have some empathy for your fellow mankind.

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  • 2

    who cares. some people think that points are all that matter. i feel sorry for them.

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  • 2

    Thanks for the comment, it brightened my day :) +1 to you good sir

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    I am sorry about your friend. May he R.I.P, and thanks for the comment :)

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  • 2

    when you were explaining yourself you reminded me of light yagami... is that wierd?

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  • 2

    Oh god thats gotta be AWFUL

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  • 2

    Fuck jrotc. I've been in it for 2 years and i'm tired of it.

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  • 2

    The chartered accountant skit is one of the funniest ones.

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  • 2

    they played this song at the iron maiden concert in denver last month

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  • 2

    heres somethin to cheer you up...
    if he REALLY annoys you by playing xbox live while hes supposed to be working... get sneaky and quietly unplug the internet from the router, so if the router is connected to a modem, disconnect the modem. If the router has the inbuilt modem, unplug the cable from the phone line, but DONT SWITCH THE ROUTER OFF! That way the xbox will be connected, but have no internets ^^

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  • 2

    i think he was just venting to plp but we were the only ones he could.

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    Dude! I had to register just so I could reply to your post.
    It sounds like you have your head on pretty straight. Your family will always be your family, but you got to worry about number 1. Just hang in there a couple more years, get done with high school, and work towards a scholarship at a college far, far away!

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  • 1

    At lease your ten year old brother has all of his brains and decides not to use them. My little brother has permanent brain damage thanks to my dad teaching me a permanent lesson on drunk driving on my entire family. stress comes in too many forms these days I'm gonna be a senior and my life is soo stressful it's easier for me to repress it all and be depressed. So just remember at least you have your family and your together. me-parents divorced, socially awkward, overweight, self conscious, underestimating myself, depressed mother, a father who is a hypocrite and filled with put downs, no girlfriend since junior high, a job for only 50$ a week babysitting, last Christmas I got a watch. so I'm sure your life can defiantly get worse you'd better thank your lucky stars that it hasn't.

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  • 1

    Your life isn't that bad. At least your not living in a 3rd world country. Cheer up emo kid

    • Jozzoh
    • July 21, 2010, 8:15 pm
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    you know what im the youngest of 11 and im a real red headed step child. yet even though im the youngest im the smartest, the most organized, but i'm the equivalent of shit in my parents eyes because my older brother who is only two year older than me is the golden child yet i am 7 time better than he is and just to put a perspective to what ive made for myself, i have a six figure annual income working for an alcohol distributor from canada, i'm the second kid in my family to own a house and on top of that its in the rich part of town, i have a 3000 sq/ft lake house in montana, and my girlfriend beautiful yet im the lowest member of the family. everyone has a crappy life and the best thing we can do is strive for success and once the goal is met we look down at the ones who pissed us off and tell them they are number 1 with the middle finger and laugh in there face whenever we can

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  • 1

    wow u had a job since 10 thats cool good job at succeeding in life here is a cookie
    super mario cookie

    no sarcasm ^^
    Im not spoiled but I sit on my computer all day Im 16 & no job but wen I need something I work for it like I bought my laptop my self so obviously im gonna use it to my hearts content, I go work sometimes with my uncle not a lot, I know wat money is worth & I like my aunt & uncle (I dont live with my parents) but I hate ppl that have pity for me.
    sometimes they get annoying but I appreciate wat they do for me

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    Thats awful, i hope the best for you and your little brother.

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    Ooh, a cookie *nomnomnom*

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    Thanks :)

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    >.> my thoughts exactly.

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  • 1

    My best mate in primary school died by hit and run, and i was there....

    I still think about it/blame myself for it, thinking if i could of just slowed him down for a minute he would still be here, but hes not

    Life goes on, and you must always look for the good things fist, no matter how small or little the good things actually are

    i had a shit time in primary school, almost kicked out entirely
    made my parents angry/sad/cry

    So yea, life can get tough some times, but you just got to keep on going, or the bad stuff will stop you from doing the things you enjoy most

    i hate hearing about how peoples lives suck atm, because i know some want to relate to others or for another reason, but just chin up and soldier on

    I really fell ur pain dedria if i spelt that right

    It still haunts me today about my best mate dying but i have to keep on and to not let it slow me down.

    So just soldier on and try to find mates who will listen and understand, and stay your friends, because that matters a lot mate

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    I pretty much understand how you feel. Although, I'm nowhere near as good as you are in school ( based on what you say ) and my mother is just about the complete opposite from yours, but my father forces me to work outside all day in the texas sun doing whatever he tells me to do (I don't even get a "good job son") and constantly being told that I'm doing a horrible job. My jobs consist of and are not limmited to: Taking care of animals, ( dogs, cats, horses, llamas, goats. ) any and all outside work, Mowing nine acres of lawn, Moving heavy millitary eguipment, catching whatever animals get out, burying whatever animals die, and cleaning the outside of the house) and again, whatever random jobs my dad can think of. I have two sisters who only have to clean dishes. My parents are also about to get a divorce and fight constantly.

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    Nigger isnt censored from television either, I have heard it on many movies and Law and Order a couple times... but maybe thats nigga.

    mccoy - my life (sucks)

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    what i find that rotc does a great job of is teaching you the terms and thought process needed to efficiently communicate in the armed forces. make no mistake it does not in any way shape or form get you ready for parris island.

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    My dad is like that (Without the arguing and about to divorce part), just the hard work, and telling me how im not working hard enough. But if it wasnt for him doing that, i wouldnt have pushed myself hard enough to be on the path i am now

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    Jozzoh, tacolad, if you haven't got anything good to say then don't say it at all.
    And Deidra all i can say to you is things may be bad now but the saying onwards and upwards is what you should focus on now, you may have to make some hard decisions, fight some hurtful battles and even deal with some shit to get there but just keep on going dude, you will reach a point where all is right and you are once again as content, care free and happy as you were the day you were born. Peace & love.
    And your little brother is only ten, i was much the same, lazy, spoiled and appeared to be heading nowhere but these next few years in his life will be the ones that shape who he is, forget the past and just try to be there for him to guide him if you can.

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    There is a difference between black people and niggers i would say you are racist for assuming that every black person is a nigger.....i have plenty of mixed and black people in my family and they are not niggers they are respectable black people.....and seriously out of that whole thing the only thing you picked up on was the word nigger....really dood...wtf is wrong with you

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  • 1

    so true
    some monty python to brighten your day

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    get a job. then you can make your own money. so that way, next time...
    dad: go do the dishes
    you: fuck off dad im tired
    dad: WHAT!?!?
    you: i said fuck off!
    dad: go do the god damn dishes
    you: NO!
    dad: well then i guess im just not gonna feed you
    you: well then ill feed myself fuckface
    and you can do that now because you have a job.

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    It was ment to be a joke *dude.
    Oh and actualy nigger is a derogorative word for people of african decent and people who are not caucasian, that is the real definition so that is its meaning.
    nig·ger
    –noun
    1.
    Slang: Extremely Disparaging and Offensive .
    a.
    a black person.
    b.
    a member of any dark-skinned people.
    2.
    Slang: Extremely Disparaging and Offensive . a person of any race or origin regarded as contemptible, inferior, ignorant, etc.
    3.
    a victim of prejudice similar to that suffered by blacks; a person who is economically, politically, or socially disenfranchised.

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    dark skinned people huh does that make me a nigger then because im mexican and dark complected and it says dark skinned people

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    According to the dictionary yes it would seem, this definition is not my opinion if you didn't know that already...

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    Next time anyones father tells them to do a ridiculous hard chore tell them you'll roshambo him for it.

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    at least you dont have cancer....... TESTICULAR cancer

    that sounds horrible .. 0.0
    - MissRandom November 20, 2011, 11:01 am
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    I'm just sayin dood and the way i was raised anyone can be a nigger dosen't matter your skin color....to me a nigger is a dirty PERSON who lives in a filthy house doesn't wash and has no personal hygiene

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    Why not just call them dirty rather than use a word associated with pure hate? get rid of the word completely.

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    I uprated it, so balance is restored

    • Ertrov
    • July 27, 2010, 2:43 pm
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    Its ok

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    Ertrov....thanks....atleast someone isnt an asshole and seems to give a shit

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    Didn't Life of Brian get banned in a bunch of counntrys?

    • btw32
    • July 27, 2010, 5:56 pm
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    thx for forgiving me X)

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    thats sad ii hate drinker they make poor choses you make my life good i could nvr live like that i hope it gets better

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    funny as hell but still sad. it makes me feel bad to laegh to it XD :( idk witch one to put

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    you made me feel worst ty not an insult makes me almost cry to it T-T

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    its sad when crap happens i dont like it when plp die even though i dont know him it makes me feel sad that some one is suffering. i mean my dog died by a car. but R.I.P to ur freind, i hope that his famly finds him un less they did all ready, but i not good at making plp feel good i hope i didnt hurt u

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    it's a quad win i get legal pot, i can't have kids, i can use my balls for like anything, and gf gets a scrotum coat i see no down side to that cancer.

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    my life

    my dad is a drunk who drink a 24 pack a day thinks he can act like god and dosent stop yelling till hes wasted and half asleep. wakes up and yells at us for nothen puts words in our mouths. my mom will yell about eneything wrong me my bro have to fight r dad daly then my freind is having proplems at his house so i cant escape my house for a few days and when i do get there i stay for one day cause when i leave he find somthing wrong at home and brings me back he sometimes hits me and says he was punnshing a child for not lisening. if i call the cops he gose to jail we go broke he dosent we deal with hell. at shcool im in sulted for my last name that i smell a lie and that im like the only white there

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    hmmmmmmmmmmmm smart

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    I never said it was funny, after all my brother was nearly killed in an accident and has never really got his life back on track since then, and I did say it was 'dark humour' no offence was meant by the picture and I'm sorry if you had it. Just proving a point that there are always people having a worse day.
    I will now remove the picture if it is that big of an issue and I apologise.

    • SuDoku
    • July 28, 2010, 12:23 am
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    castlewarsisawesome
    Thank you for your respect, its not a very nice thing to see the things you love die, R.I.P t your dog, must of been hard and i am sorry for your loss.

    As for finding the man responsible, noone has seen him at all. And you didn't hurt me its all ok thanks

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    Idk, but i will look into it.

    Wikipedia says that it was banned in a lot of parts of the UK and a few countries, most of those bans have been lifted by now.

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    it was not banned in the US! i love that movie!

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    It was pretty funny in that weird way that Monty Python always is.

    • btw32
    • July 28, 2010, 8:25 am
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    -he must be the messiah, only the messiah would not admit to being the messiah!
    -ok then i am the messiah.
    -he admitted to being the messiah!

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    thank you for your sympathy.

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    from personal experience

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    Wow glad I grew up before the downfall of society started

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    how is life treating you now :)
    i hope things have changed for the better
    i think your mam needs therapy and your 10 year old brother should go to some very strict private school!!
    i respect you IDeidaraIKun :)

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    wow... Racist.

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    Sorry, but that picture really isn't funny. My girlfriend was in a car accident a few months ago where this ^ was about 2 seconds from happening. Thank God they pulled out of the stoplight those 2 seconds later. Her great grandmother still died in the accident, and my girl was stuck at home for 2 weeks with a back injury. They hit a semi, if that gives you an idea how lucky she is to be alive. So although to some people that picture might appeal to darker humor, try and think about what people will think when they see it. Could bring up memories people would rather forget. I know it was just a joke and it seems like I'm overreacting, but try to imagine if something like in that picture happened to your girlfriend/wife? I doubt it would be so funny.

    • Ertrov
    • July 27, 2010, 2:48 pm
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    I think anyone who's gone through all that is entitle to a verbal slip without criticism

    • Ertrov
    • July 27, 2010, 2:53 pm
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    Nowdays I ask myself; can teh internetz amuse me even more?

    • TioArk
    • July 27, 2010, 6:22 pm
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    i read all of that thinking it was gunna b one of those posts thats describing how shitty the life is of sum famous cartoon character like sponge bob or sumthing but it was just ur life.... biggest waiste of 5 minutes ever.

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