Advice.
So there's this dude.
Lemme' explain a couple things.
1) He says he loves me, constantly.
2) He says he loves me more than a friend.
(Here's the shocker)
3) He's got a girlfriend.
Now, what's so goddamn confusing about this is that:
1) He knows the feelings are mutual between us.
2) He says, "You're so much better than my girlfriend." or "I love you more than her." and things like that constantly.
3) He's my best friend.
4) He won't do anything about the feelings we both have.
I really do have strong feelings for him, but this is so damn stressful! I have no idea what to do. Should I just confront him and tell him, "For god's sake, ditch your chick already. You know you'd be happier with me." or just wait it out? Or some other alternative?
asdfghjkl.
I hate being a teenager.
Lemme' explain a couple things.
1) He says he loves me, constantly.
2) He says he loves me more than a friend.
(Here's the shocker)
3) He's got a girlfriend.
Now, what's so goddamn confusing about this is that:
1) He knows the feelings are mutual between us.
2) He says, "You're so much better than my girlfriend." or "I love you more than her." and things like that constantly.
3) He's my best friend.
4) He won't do anything about the feelings we both have.
I really do have strong feelings for him, but this is so damn stressful! I have no idea what to do. Should I just confront him and tell him, "For god's sake, ditch your chick already. You know you'd be happier with me." or just wait it out? Or some other alternative?
asdfghjkl.
I hate being a teenager.
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Posted: 2010-12-27 19:00:40
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oooh girl, you need to ditch that zero and find yo-self a hero.
hahah holy shit the cheesiness of that made me laugh
At the end of the day you need to remember that this guy is already with a girl and if he's saying this to you now, then what's to say he might not do this to someone else if you guys get together? I'm not blaming you, because at the end of the day he's the one in a relationship already not you. Just if he's doing this while in a relationship with someone else, who's to say if they do split and you get together he won't start on another girl this way?
same way I thought of it, just couldn't put it into words.
Ah, hate how true that is. :(
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In return for the lols in this post, I shall offer (probably flawed) advice.
Tell him to stop stringing you along. Unless he intends to leave his current girlfriend in a timely manner, tell him to stop saying that he loves you.
Tell him to stop stringing you along. Unless he intends to leave his current girlfriend in a timely manner, tell him to stop saying that he loves you.
< i> text here, plz. </ i>
Without the spaces, of course.
Like this;D
Plus bold, which is like the I, but with a B. Lowercase, plz.
< b> text here. </ b>
TADA!:D
or both!
Without the spaces, of course.
Like this;D
Plus bold, which is like the I, but with a B. Lowercase, plz.
< b> text here. </ b>
TADA!:D
or both!
Didn't think about that...thanks!
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That's why it's there, brotato chip.
in regards to your last post,it doesn't bother me but ur not allowed to post that kind of stuff even if u give a fair warning sorry. TERMS OF SERVICE
Eh. If the thread gets deleted, I don't really care.
just letting you know so in the future you don't post something along those lines. no hard feeling?
...I already do play WoW. ^_^
Well, used to.
Well, used to.
Lol
I have a girlfriend, but in the last period we have some problems, because I've started University in another town.. So we can stay togheter only in the weekend. Ofc another problem is that at University I start to know a lot of people, so it's hard to go along with a relationship in this conditions... At the end I have decided to stay with my girlfriend anyway. So I think this guy have only to teka a decision.
Now sorry but I've to try finish this fucking Grim Batol U.U
I have a girlfriend, but in the last period we have some problems, because I've started University in another town.. So we can stay togheter only in the weekend. Ofc another problem is that at University I start to know a lot of people, so it's hard to go along with a relationship in this conditions... At the end I have decided to stay with my girlfriend anyway. So I think this guy have only to teka a decision.
Now sorry but I've to try finish this fucking Grim Batol U.U
SSSS. Bummer.
That's gotta be rough. :/
That's gotta be rough. :/
hes got others on his mind rather than his own, he doesnt sound like much of a dude to me :|
there was a post a few days back asking sharenatorers to post a pic of themselves, yoo did, and to me yoo look like a girl who's got people begging at your feet for yoo! dont let this bub get in your way :P
there was a post a few days back asking sharenatorers to post a pic of themselves, yoo did, and to me yoo look like a girl who's got people begging at your feet for yoo! dont let this bub get in your way :P
Yeah, I know, but it's just like: Damn. Cuz we're really...compatable. I think I spelled that wrong, but whatever.
And thanks bro, that's nice of you. I wish though, ha:D
<3
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And thanks bro, that's nice of you. I wish though, ha:D
<3
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ditch the person or ask the person which do you pick
surisly
surisly
