A letter to sharenator

Dear sharenation,
I know that whats going on with ember has people worried but i promise we are trying to figure it out so that people can rest easy knowing what has happened. if we don't find out in the next couple hours i'll be contacting my local PD to find out if there is anything that they can do in helping us learn whats going on, but as of right now we do have The sharenator Admins looking into it and will hopefully be hearing back soon as to whats going on. if i do hear anything i'll make sure to let you guys know though.

But i wanted to take a moment to thank all of you, it's truly inspiring to see everyones concern for a fellow member and i couldn't be more proud to be a member of this site in this moment. it a rare thing to see a site pull together in such a way and i've never seen so many people from so many different walks of life rush together to support a friend that most of us haven't even met in the real world. No matter what anyone says i know that the friendships that have been forged on here are more than just shallow bonds between people who don't even know each other. rather they are true friendships that been formed through the laughing and sharing of lulz and ideas. through arguments and through feels. through good times and bad. I want each and everyone of you to know and understand the level of respect and caring i have for each member of this site and i'm proud of every single one of you for showing the true caring we have for other members of our little family. it means so much to me to see this from you all.

With that said i also have a request for every member, and lurker on this site. If you ever feel like you need to talk or for some reason feel like suicide is an even an option i want you to do two things. the first is to seek out medical help, someone who is trained to help with this. i know it may seem like they can't do anything or it just doesn't seem worth it but trust me it is. and if you don't want to do that at first and feel that you just need someone to talk to then do me this favor and come to us. we may not be trained, we may not seem like we care this much about other members but like we've always said, we are a family on here. don't ever forget that. so before doing anything rash make sure to try and talk to us. some of the best friends i've made have come through this site and i would do anything i could to help them if they asked. and i want to extend that friendship out to anyone who ever feels the need of it. if you need to talk about something or need help in dealing with a problem then please, contact me. i'm not a professional and by no means am i qualified to prevent a suicide but please, never forget i'm willing to talk about things with you. like i said before this site is like family to me, and there is always room for family. if you need to contact me privately please let me know and i'll give you my information.

No matter what happens when it comes to Ember and her situation i feel everyone should know this. because the truth is you guys are my friends in the same way that all my friends off the web are. only we all have more fun on here ;) :P
on that note i want to say thank you again to all of you for the support you've shown ember in what we suspect may be a moment of need for her. you guys truly are amazing people for what you've done. and always remember i'm open to anyone who feels a need to talk.

from,
a proud member of the sharefamily
-24paperwings

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    Just a quick update - we've got Ember's IP and narrowed down where she is and that the last time she was active on here was yesterday 4/3/13 (- UK date), which I assume is when she posted, we've also found her Facebook to confirm where she is.

    24paperwings is off to the police station when he can to show them what we've found and if they're any good at doing their jobs and are anything like UK police they'll class it as a concern for welfare and go check it out.

    Ember if you read this, clearly you can see how much it matters to us that you're okay and that you've not done any harm to yourself - the fact that people thousands of miles away from you are putting time and effort into ensuring you're okay and to try and get you the help you need. Suicide should never be the solution. This is coming from someone who has been surrounded by people who have depression their entire life. It's hard, yes. But honestly, beating it's sorry ass is so much better than giving in... We may not have met you in real life - but we all care about you, Sharenator is a community, and a family - and I'm honoured that you felt you could talk to us. But please, talk to us. If you need to talk I'm always open for it...

    • SuDoku
    • March 5, 2013, 3:59 pm
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    Good shout paperwings

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    Sharehugs for everyone!

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    Here's to hoping she's alright, didn't sleep well at all.

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    I really hope that she's okay! And I'm right there with you 24paperwings, I may not always be on here but I would do anything and everything I could to help a friend in need and that goes for ALL of the amazing member on this incredible site. Every time I've felt down I get on here and everything from the hilarious pictures to the argument brighten my day up. At the end of the day we are all a huge family!

    • Kodi93
    • March 5, 2013, 4:13 pm
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    Ember, if you read this, we all love you! Just let us know you're ok. :)

    • Ertrov
    • March 5, 2013, 4:41 pm
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    I am not a religious man at all but i do pray that Ember is ok.

    • DJ9090
    • March 5, 2013, 4:42 pm
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    i'd be more than happy to help anyone with any problems at almost any time of day, i'm on the FB group if anyone needs to bring anything up. i have no job or life so i'm free most of the time.

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    Ember is fine now :) See this post for details.

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